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Tuesday 30th, October 2007

Niece Number Two’s Aqeeqah

Last time we had an aqeeqah I didn’t post about it because we’d almost lost Zoë.

An aqeeqah is the muslim birth ceremony. It is usually done on the 7th day after the birth…or some calculation like that. It can also be done on the 14th, 21st, 28th…and then if you didn’t do it after that…anytime…the sooner the better.

I believe my dad’s and his siblings aqeeqah was done all at the same time and after I was already born, maybe even brother (new father).

Dish of Mutton Biryani

What is it exactly?

You sacrifice an animal and share the meat out to family, friends and poor.
Some people might have a function and cook some of the meat and invite people over. Some might just have the cook-up.

In addition, you shave the baby’s hair and collect it and weigh it and pay some equivalent in charity (yes! new parents are always so very careful and exacting in the collecting…but my daddy says it’s a new baby even with a full head of hair…it’s usually always an ounce; round up).

So Sunday was my niece’s aqeeqah.

They sacrificed a mutton and my mom cooked biryani with some by the in-laws. It was good (but too much meat for me…).

It was a huge pot! It was just a touch spicy (it should be spicier but not everybody can take spicy including dad). This picture is just the little pot it was served in. You can see my second helping here.

Brownies

Now, I’ve been dying to bake all week. All week. Scones. Brownies. Mostly scones…and whatever else, I’ve forgotten. But even though I’ve been awake for whole days (8:30am to 11pm/1am), I wasn’t feeling well…and the sight of the kitchen and the ingredients being taken out just either got me depressed or extremely tired. From Friday (which is the only day in weeks I slept the whole thing through, with breaks for prayer, food and personal hygiene) to Sunday morning I was plotting how to fit in the hour or two to make brownies.

Sunday morning I coughed almost non-stop on the bed for who knows what reason. When dad told me when we were leaving to go to the in-laws (in a half-hour) I almost didn’t think I would make it. 15 minutes later I propelled myself off the couch and convinced myself to bathe. I think I spent more time choosing between a bright blue scarf or an orange one to match my gown…!!! But while showering, the idea came…

I packed the cocoa and old dark chocolate and After Eight dinner mints into my huge handbag and wrote down the amounts for the brownie recipe.

On reaching my sister-in-law, I spent most of the morning convincing her little sister to help me make brownies. Reassured she wouldn’t have to make them alone and basically I needed company to make them and she didn’t want to bake alone, we eventually did them after lunch.

Interestingly enough, when I said I had to take pictures of the brownies in STACKS! she went rummaging around for a plate and quite happily stacked all the brownies. And didn’t mind the shenanigans we were going through with icing sugar to make it “pretty”.

It was kind of fun.

And, since what I was suffering from was a “baking craving” I didn’t really need to eat any of them…or a lot of them. I just *needed* to bake!!! We put the dark (71% and 85%) chocolate in the brownies (chunks!) and chopped up the After Eight to top the brownies. I like mint! :)

Here is the stacked work of art (I think I crave stacked brownies…I think I saw it on TV once and it just looked like what a child would really want and I would know because then I was a child…).

Brownies stacked: close up

Feel free to look at the remaining aqeeqah pictures! Lots of brownies :)

Monday 29th, October 2007

Elections Dilemma

Election Fever has hit Trinidad and Tobago.

We’re due at the polls on November 5th.

Now comes the election dilemma…of course most people don’t suffer from these problems. They just vote party…or race…or don’t vote!

I really do wish electing our Prime Minister was separate from electing our constituent. So say I preferred the UNCA candidate to run my constituency (haha!) then I could vote for him but if I wanted a different Prime Minister say the PN…okay! I can’t say that. Oh no! But you get it?

Anywayz, mom made reference to my problem in a previous post of mine.

What do you do when you’re supporting one party and you believe you need to do everything in your power to get them to win (i.e. vote for the candidate for your constituency come election day)…yet…yet…you don’t like the candidate.

Actually, I don’t know if we like the candidate.
It’s been said that he’s made anti-muslim comments…he’s arrogant…he’s a bad apple in the party (by others…I don’t know if the party says this).

There was a cottage meeting and my dad asked the candidate about the statements. He said nooo he never said that. Those were part of the allegations against him etc etc. His wife is muslim. Hmmm. Of course one of my mom’s friends said she heard it on the radio (other party, other party radio station).

What to do!
Voting is the only way to make a difference.
Well prayer too.
We don’t seem to have any other way for the voice of the people to be heard. Once our representatives are elected they do not listen to us and we can’t seem to do any vote of no confidence or make them do what we the people want.

*sigh*

On that note, I leave you with a picture of take out food. How is it relevant? Well there was some ‘Id-ul-Fitr luncheon that somebody was invited to which was a forum for one party to speak (no! i wasn’t invited). But somebody gave us take-away boxes…mom and I had been shopping that morning and out all day…we were so hungry…it tasted great :-)

Take Away 'Id-ul-Fitr Lunch: Shrimp, Chicken, Lamb, Fish and Fried Rice

After ‘Id-ul-Fitr or the October food round-up

Well, it’s not as if I did a lot of cooking in October…or maybe I did…for me…after all, cooking one dish is plenty for me, right?

And this isn’t going to include *all* things October…I still have some relaxing in the camera…

Talking about the camera…well my pictures aren’t that great (when are they ever?). Chennette made me move the camera off AUTO after ‘Id and it is now set on Aperture Priority. Do I know what I’m doing? Hell no! Will I ever? God knows!!!

I think it’s on centre focus and who knows why. I need to learn to use the multi-selector…*practise*

Oh well…what did we cook after ‘Id?

We made cornbread (yum!), cole slaw and rasgullah (finally! as promised!).

Cornbread, Coleslaw and oven baked BBQ Chicken

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Tuesday 23rd, October 2007

Pink?

I’m an aunty for the second time!

My brother’s daughter was born yesterday at 10:55 am.
She weighs 6 lbs 8 oz and is 51 cm long.

And she looks surprisingly like my other niece (and her father!) and less like her other cousin (who was born 8 weeks ago and herself looks like her father!).

Either my mother (we blame mom) has very dominant genes or my brother’s in-laws have very recessive genes :-)

But yay.
But my brother isn’t here.

Oh.
And she’s very pink! and red!

Sunday 21st, October 2007

Kamla Persad-Bissessar: Battered Woman or Muslim Sacrifice

People say that Kamla is enacting the battered wife to a tee. She has been sidelined for leading the UNC Alliance into the next election (and thus being Prime Minister if they win) and yet still proclaims her love for the man Basdeo Panday and proclaims her undying loyalty.

My dad says that someone so bright should be ashamed. They should take back all her degrees for that.

Well, my mom heard the reason Kamla was sidelined was to keep the muslim vote. What I mean to say is that the muslims would not vote for UNC-A because they would be voting for a female Prime Minister and they can’t have that. And this is the reason she accepted the decision…for the good of the party…etc etc.

Hmm…I don’t know if it’s true but I would have been more likely to vote for UNC-A (ha!) with Kamla leading than Basdeo (and Jack) leading. Actually, in putting aside Kamla they didn’t have to put Panday as a co-leader. They could have used somebody else. I don’t think I could ever vote for a party with Basdeo Panday as a leader.

Also, COP and Winston Dookeran might have been more willing to entertain unity talks with UNC-A or at least accommodation talks with Kamla as the leader. And then…well who would lead if they won would still be up in the air.

Saturday 20th, October 2007

Knife-and-Fork Indians

I’m not a knife-and-fork Indian.
But that’s because…I’m not Indian :-)
(And I tend to not use a knife…).

But what’s wrong with someone who eats with a knife-and-fork?

How can you preach unity for Trinidad & Tobago while calling some Indians traitors to their race for running in any party they choose (now, I might consider some people traitors to their country for supporting a dictatorship…but that’s different). That’s not unity. That’s preaching race politics. Yes, we know everybody pushes race but at least don’t be so obvious.

How can you call for unity at the same time as you are insulting the people you want to woo? Serious case of right hand not knowing what the left hand doing (or the right brain cell not knowing what the left brain cell doing…yes! you only have TWO brain cells).

Back to the knife-and-fork…if you are preaching unity, doesn’t it seem contradictory to separate based on how you eat? Why can’t the people who eat with hands and the people who eat with a knife-and-fork unite to save the country. Are only the people who eat with hands deserving of being saved?

On a side note, don’t expect me to eat with my hands if you don’t provide decent facilities to wash my hands before and after I eat. But then, you probably don’t wash the dishes too well so I’m doomed anywayz…(doomed to die of starvation).

Friday 19th, October 2007

Alton Says…

Mom (as she is putting eggs from the carton into the fridge tray): Alton says…
Me: Yes mom, Alton says the best place to store your eggs is in the carton in which you bought it! NOT in the fridge tray.
Mom (as she continues stashing the eggs in the evil place of broken eggs): No! You not listening to me! Alton says the more brown sugar you put in a cookie…

I don’t think I need to continue. This is just to give you an idea of the monsters that have been created.

Guess who’s on now!!! (A very young person).

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